L.O.V.E. and Relationship

给我单身的朋友们...
To My Friends Who Are ... ... SINGLE

爱就像一只蝴蝶。越要追它，却越要逃避。
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.

但...
But,

如果就隨它自由的飞，他会在你最不注意时飞向你；
If you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it；

爱使人快乐，却常伤害人，
Love can make you happy but often it hurts,

但只有在你把爱给了一个真正值得付出的人时，才是最珍贵的...
But love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it..

所以，花点时间去选择最好的 他/她 吧！
So take your time and choose the best！



给我那不是单身的朋友们...
To My Friends Who Are ... ... NOT SINGLE

爱不能使 他/她 成为一個 “完美的人” ，
Love isn't about becoming someone else's "perfect person",

它却可以使你找到一个帮你成长的 他/她 。
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.



给我玩世不恭的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... PLAYBOY or PLAYGIRL

如果你不在乎，不要说 “我爱你” ；
Never say "I love you" if you do not care；

如果没有感觉，就不要讨论自已的感受...
Never talk about feelings if they ain't there...


* Don't think he'll be able to play with colors now... at least for the time being. *

不要涉足会使他人心碎的生活。
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.

说谎时，不要看著眼睛。
Never look into the eyes while lying.

最残忍的事莫过于男人让女人爱他，却是逢场作戏。反之亦然 ...
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl or a girl can do to a guy is to let her/him fall in love when he/she doesn't intend to catch her/his fall... It have to work both ways...



给我已婚的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... MARRIED

不要老是说 “这是你的错” ，何不说说 “对不起” ，
Love is not about saying "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry" ;

不要老是问 “你去哪裡了” ，何不说说 “我就在这儿等着你” 。
Not "where are you", but "I'm right here waiting for you";

不要老是问 “你怎么会这么做？” ，何不说说 “我了解你” 。
Not "how could you", but "I understand."

不要老是说 “我希望你这么做” ，何不说说 “我感谢你的一切” 。
Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."



给我心碎的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... HEARTBROKEN

心碎的时间和伤害的深度，完全取決于你自已。
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.

难的是，如何从中学习，而不是从伤痛中爬起。
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.



给我所有天真的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... NAIVE

要如何恋爱？... 就爱吧！不要欲烟言又止；要互相协调，不要太固执；
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent,

要分享，且千万不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,

受伤后不要再记恨。
and get hurt but never keep the pain.


给我积极的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... POSSESSIVE

看到你所爱的 他/她 和其他人很快乐使你心碎
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but

但知道你所爱的 他/她 是和你在一起不快乐，令人更加的伤心。
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.



给我不敢表白的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... AFRAID TO CONFESS

当你和 他/她 分手时，爱受到伤害
Love hurts when you break up with someone.

当 他/她 和你分手时，更是伤痛
It hurts even more when breaks up with you.

但伤害最深的是你所爱的 他/她 完全无法了解你的感受
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.



给我那还在坚持着的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... STILL HOLDING ON

人生最伤心的事，是你和 他/她 爱情長跑了多年，最后的结局却不如所望。
find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.

如果 他/她 现在让你觉得不值得付出，那麽一年，甚至十年后，都不会值得付出的。
If he/she isn't worth it now he's/she's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now.

就让 他/她 走吧
Just let them go.....

* The sweet talk part is easy tarp, but not for girls who knows how to differentiate sweet talk and sincere talk. Unfortunately, most of the sincere talk doesn't taste sweet to them. *

From lowyat.net cupid corner.

Midnight Thought

Friends
They might leave you,
might hurt you,
might back stab you,
might do something bad to you;

Lovers
Yes they love you,
they care for you,
they pamper you,
and they miss you...

But still...

They might leave you,
might hurt you with the most cruelest words,
might turn their back on you when you're helpless,
might betray you,
and will do a lot of devilish things that you'll never get to imagine.

Till the end,

Parents are the best...
They are always there for you,
they care for you until they breath their last breath,
once as a child, you are forever their child,
they will never turn their back on you,
they will always provide shelter whenever you are in trouble,
AND THEY WILL NEVER EVER LEAVE YOU BEHIND IF THEY ARE GOING TO LIVE FOREVER!

Yes, there's no forever in life... I've learned this lesson twice.
But there's parental love that last longer and stronger than forever...



Love you mom, love you too dad...

I'm proud of both of you as my parents... I really do...

Thanks for everything~ Thanks for everything that you've gave us... =)

How to define F.A.M.I.L.Y. ? - "Father And Mother I Love You"

* Family will always be as one no matter what they've been through. *

Sick

* MC, receipt, medicines, RM20 to buy food by doctor. *

I was on MC today due to an uneasy stomach (Doc diagnosed me with stomach bacteria infection). I thought that I could cope with it and put up a brave face to work... Unfortunately, I can't even last until lunch time. =.="

I'm feeling so tired as if I've just completed a marathon race. My body was so weak until it just couldn't seems to work with my command. The worst part is, I was shivering and felt extremely cold. Worst still, my stomach was spinning like no tomorrow.. Symptom of diarrhea and fever I guessed. Zzzzzzz...

Worked for half day today, as I left the office around 11.30am and went to see doctor for consultation.

I'm there in the clinic for almost 2 hours. Please don't get me wrong, there's totally no other patient at all other than me. LOL... After some little bit of chit chat, she get to know my profession. As usual, whenever people heard "IT", they thought we - IT graduates are all superman.


* SuperITman *

I mean, IT has a very broad field... Software related, hardware related, network related, security related... blahblahblah... But most of the people "ASSUME" that we learned all these in our University (wahhh... if like this, 4 years course how to finish???). Anyhow, ok lar, I maybe know a little bit more than others... Working as part time computer technician trainee during few years back when I've just finished my PMR examination helps a lot. =)

Ok, back to the doctor story, then, she asked me to help her to fix her laptop... Sighhh... what else, virus lorrr... spyware lorrr... adware lorrr... Torjan lorrr... as what I've expected... Then I helped her to fix it like how I cleaned my company's PC. Who knows I left my pendrive in the office, sighhhh... have to redownload them. Well well, I don't expect her to know how to actually use it after downloading. *Send buddha send to the west* lorrr... Chit chat with the doctor while waiting for it to download, update, and also scanning the PC. The doctor was a nice lady, treat me a cup of oat with banana, water, gave me 2 pens, and last but not least, she wanted to pay me RM30 for the "service" charge. @.@"

I pretend to be nice lar... I mean, I am nice. =) I rejected her offer.. but she insisted!!! "Take it and buy some food to eat", She said. Then after some negotiation(pretend to be a nice guy again), I took RM20 le...

P/S: She convinced me, by saying that it is my company who pays for the RM38 consultation fees. So she must give me something in return because I'm not the one who are paying her.

Haha~ She reminds me of my grandma.


* Grandma so cuteeeee. *

Whenever she gave me money, she'll say the something similar like "Give you money to buy things to eat".
And when I wanted to give her money after I started to earn money by myself, she will still say something like "Keep it for yourself, enough to eat? Eat nice a bit lahhh... ...."

But recently, she added in something new,... "Keep it for your marriage.", she said.

Maybe she's getting older, and older... and I'm growing up too! Anyhow, Love you grandma... =) muakssssss! =x

* Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit. *

Alcoholic

Within these 4 days, I've been consuming quite a lot of alcohol for the past 3 nights...

Thus, I'm now "officially" having an ALCOHOL OVERDOSE!!!

By the way... First time tried Glenmorangie, and it tastes nice! =)

P/S: Longer entry will mostly be posted on weekdays. Thanks~

* Alcohol - the cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems. *

Remember What Life Was Like Before‏

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, "If I could only see the world, I will marry you!"

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her, "Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?"

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying:
"Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine."

* Hugging is only a gesture of love, of warmth, of caring.
The very feel of the warmth flowing from the other person melts many illnesses in you, melts the ice-like, cold ego. *

* This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations. *

Human... are all selfish after all... Sighhh... zzzZZZzzz

A very good example General Tan gave me...
" When you are pointing at someone (the polite way - with your thumb), 4 of your fingers actually are pointing at yourself. "
In the end, it's still all about you, you, you, and yourself...

「

*~* Life Is a Gift *~*

Today,
before you say an unkind word,
Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about your husband or wife,
Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Sometimes,
When you're mad,
You have the right to be mad,
But you don't have the right to be cruel.

Today,
before you complain about life,
Think of someone who went too early to heaven.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down,
Put a smile on your face and think: You're alive and still around.

」

* A loving heart is always the truest wisdom. *

10 Lines Of Codes For The Whole Afternoon

Went to MMU Cyberjaya for training early half of the day, and came back to office in the afternoon.

Did you guys ever heard of "Brain Malfunction" ?

This is what happened when my soul went back to my lovely bed and my body still in the office...



FUCK LA! STUCK WHOLE AFTERNOON FOR THIS 10 LINES OF CODE!!!
(Ended up I only used less than 10mins to code this 10 lines before I left the office)

Seems like my brain started to function just before I'm leaving the office =.=" How efficient?!!!

Sighhh... My brain just malfunctioned for the whole afternoon... @@

* Do the hard jobs first. The easy jobs will take care of themselves. *

Winter Whites

I always like to rear pets... Dogs, birds, chickens, fishes, spiders and lately (when I mean lately, it's around these 2-3 years), HAMSTER...

P/S for someone: Rear - "to breed and raise (livestock)." from dictionary.com

That was back then when I've hell lot of time to spare and wanted to find something to rear. Hence, I've chosen Winter White Hamster. Please don't get me wrong, judging by the name itself, it seems like they're white in color, as white as winter snow... BUT YOU'RE WRONG! They're no where near white at all. However, it's white on their belly and gray or black on their back. Besides, they have a dark stripe from its head to butt.


* This is NOT MINE *

Oh, by the way, their breed belongs to dwarf hamster. As we know dwarf stand for small la... Other than that, they indeed will change their fur to white color during winter. BUT please take note, by winter means their time exposure to lights(night is longer than day during winter) that will affect their fur changes in color but not the cold winter temperature. SO PLEASE DON'T PUT THEM IN THE FRIDGE IF YOU WANT THEM TO BE WHITE OK?!!! =.="


* When they are in their winter coat (NOT MINE ALSO) *

I bought a pair of winter whites from lowyat forum. If I'm not mistaken, they cost me around RM50+ . The price were slightly expensive because I bought them from a breeder. She claimed the hamster were higher in "quality" =.=" but I don't know lar... I'm not veterinarian also @.@

Here I proudly presented you the ancestor of my hamsters... Fei lou and Fei poh!!! (yaya, I know I'm not creative at all)


* Fei Poh - Normal Black, Fei Lou - Sapphire *

Yeah, as you guys noticed, they called it sapphire for the light gray species.

When time goes by, they produced 5 little cutie babies... =)

* WARNING! NAKED HAMSTER PICTURE AHEAD!!! 18SX *


* Just days after they were born. *


* Growing some fur. *


* Milk feeding, how lovely... All moms are great and mighty. *


* Peanuts *


* Eventually, they grew up very well... Fat and healthy as you can see. *


* You guys will never gonna understand the bond between me and my little kids... They could even fall asleep on my hand. *

Now, I've only one left with me. I'm sorry to do this to him but, as we work, we did not have so much time as we used to have. Thus, I'm not deciding to buy him any partner. Even though if I did buy him one, he don't even know how to have sex with the female. YOU BELIEVE OR NOT?!!!? HE REALLY DON'T KNOW ONE LARRRR!!! Haihhhhh...



Sighhh... He is what I have left...


Good night everyone. ZzzzZzzzzzzzzz....



* God couldn't be everywhere, so he created mothers. *

Rainy Friday

TGIF... It's the last day of workdays and it should be full of excitement ahead, weekend? outings? or whatsoever... But shit, today I did something that scared the freak out of me!!!

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MY OFFICE PC WAS INFECTED BY TROJAN AND WORMS!!!
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* Panicking State!!! *


* OMFG!!! WTFFFF??!!! *

Luckily I managed to fixed it without spreading any shit to the company's network... FIU~ If not, I'll be in deep shit =.=" (If you ask me why I'm so sure about it, it's because I've removed the LAN CABLE ma~!!! XD)

Weekend approaching, and I've no idea what to do during the weekend. It was raining outside, heavily... whenever it rains, I'll feel damn sad one lohhhh~ @.@ and a bit worried this time around.

Haihhhh... It's raining...

Reminded me the days that went to the night market to stock up for the week but ended up all wet. Walking in the rain, without worrying 'll get sick LOL... And walked for some distance in the heavy rain from the night market to the hostel apartment. Bathed with cold water later on, because there's no heater =( luckily did not fall sick the next day, sounds pity, but its happy, experience =)

Walked to the campus, with one tiny umbrella, and the wind easily "tear" it off... Still ended up all wet though... How determine, to go to class... ;-)

The wind there at the apartment, was even more scary. I saw it blew the tables and chairs away from ZamZam mamak stall. When the rain comes... The wind blew even stronger, as if it could even blow us away...

Cycling in rain, was even more dangerous.. raindrops falling on my face, and I cycled as fast as I could, to go home... from "east" to "timur". Reached home, and get scolded by mom... =( sorry mom...

On the speedboat during island hopping, it was raining, its like horse riding in the rain, so cold... It's a surprise that didn't caught cold. It was raining so heavily along the Patong beach, and forced to stand under the tree or in front of people's shop... looking at the passing by; There were even Thais selling overpriced raincoats and umbrellas; Took their famous TukTuk back to hotel, due to the rain and laziness to walk... Guessed it's a good time for the locals to earn some big bucks eh? Ohya, by the way, it's at Phuket Island. =)


* Patong Beach *

It can even rain for one whole week in Malacca.. It was so damn cold and even cooler when the wind blows.
When it rains, it pours! The roads will become more dangerous, more slippery... So please drive carefully... especially on highways...

There were too much to write, if it'll be written all here... too much... How I wish I could burn it all in a CD? Just in case I'll forget?!? I'm losing my memory... so young... and I couldn't deny, I've even forgotten how I get to know Si Mun. Zzzzzz... Sighhh... I'm so worried... because I don't have a good memory... yet there's sooo much for me to remember... just soooooooo muchhhh...



* Breakdowns can create breakthroughs. Things fall apart so things can fall together. *

懂得放下, 和等自在!

I'm very grateful that I've a bunch of best friends that often forward me some inspirational and meaningful emails whenever I need them! Thanks guys!!! It gave me a really strong feelings after reading this article ...

By the way, ... "Sharing is Caring" right? =)

*****

記住 anger ( 發怒 ) 與 danger ( 危險) 只差一個字

別看少這一個字

它會影響我們這份職業、甚至人際關係

正所謂 「禍從口出...」

「 Speak when you're angry, and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret. 」

專家講:

「人，面對外人時，

總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，

但面對自己最親近的家人、爱人

卻往往一點小事就足以皺起眉頭，

甚至出言相傷。」

正如你永遠只對你最愛、最親的人生氣

你會對住你上司、老板、甚至你的朋友, 好朋友生氣或发脾气嗎 ?

如果形容人類是一種

「出門高E.Q ，回家低E.Q 」 的動物，

我想一點兒也不誇張，

多拿出一點耐心與包容給家人吧！

否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？

曾在報上看過

英文中的 stressed （壓力），與 desserts （甜點）兩字，

有很微妙的相關。是什麼相關呢？

仔細一瞧，好像沒什麼關係嘛！

可是，再看一下，咦，

stressed 這個字從後面倒過來拼寫，不就是 desserts 嗎？

所以，「stressed is just desserts if you can reverse. 」

（壓力就是甜點，只要你能逆向觀看。）

哈，這真是有趣的妙論呀！

人生之中，有許多 「壓力、挫折」，

但只要轉個念、換個角度看，

它也就是我們生命中的 「甜點」 呀！

此外，也有人說：

「人生就像一碗飯，一半是甜的，一半是苦的，

你不知道會先吃到哪一邊，但終究必須把飯吃完。」

是呀，生命有甜、有苦、有酸、也有辣；

但都必須去經歷它、走過它呀！

有一個小學老師在偏遠的鄉里教書，

這天，他來到自己班上的教室，

問班上的小朋友： 「你們大家有沒有討厭的人啊」

小朋友們想了想，有的未作聲，有的則猛力地點點頭。

老師接著便發給每人一個袋子，說：

「我們來玩一個遊戲。現在大家想想看，過去這一 週，

曾有那些人得罪過你他到底做了怎麼樣可惡的事想到後，

就利用放學時間到河邊去找一塊石頭，

把他的名字給用小紙條貼在石頭上如果他實在很過份，

你就找一塊大一點的石頭，如果他的錯是小錯，

你就找一塊小一點的石頭。

每天把戰利品用袋子裝到學校來給老師看哦！」

學生們感到非常有趣且新鮮，

放學後，每個人都搶著到河邊去找石頭。

第二天一早，

大家都把裝著從河邊撿來的鵝卵石的袋子帶到學校來，

興高采烈地討論著。

一天過去了，兩天過去了，三天過去了... ... ，

有的人的袋子越裝越大，幾乎成了負擔。

終於，

有人提出了抗議 「老師，好累喔」 老師笑了笑沒說話，

立刻又有人接著喊：

「對啊每天背著這些石頭來上課， 好累喔 」

這時，老師終於開口了，

她笑著說： 「那就放下這些代表著別人過犯的石頭吧」

孩子們有些訝異，

老師又接著講：

「學習寬恕別人的過犯 ，

不要把它當寶一樣的記在心上，扛在肩上，

時間久了，任誰也受不了…」

這個星期，這班的同學上到了人生中極寶貴的一課。

袋裡裝入越多、越大的 「石頭」，

心中存留越多、越深的仇恨，

所造成的負擔就越重。

假如你有寫上我名字的石頭

你應當知道該怎樣做了吧！

我很喜歡一句名諺：

「寬恕人的過失，便是自己的榮耀。」

懂得 「放下」，何等自在。

相愛容易相處難，婚姻與戀愛最大的不同，

就是 「戀愛看的是對方的優點」，

而 「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。

*****

然而，我深信的...

是不论恋爱或是婚姻都要互相包容对方的优点和缺点...

这样才能维持长久... 緣份是找到包容你的人, 不是吗?

* If its so hard for you appreciate others, don't blame it when people forgets you one day. *

Life Sucks For The Poor With A Wish List =.=

I've a wish list. And I wanna share with all of you... (So that you can buy me a present during Xmas or my Birthday HEhehhehehehehe)



My WishList
1. Notebook External Hardisk
2. New Shoes
3. New Wallet
4. New Watch
5. 1 Shorts
6. Crocs
7. Digital Camera
8. Samsung Omnia
9. Sunglasses
10. Laptop

With the recent global economy crisis caused by the "almighty" US, the life for fresh graduates like us seems to become tougher and tougher. It's even worst to have a wish list at a time like this zzzZzzzz...


* When the red bear hits the stock market. *

Explanation of "red bear" and "green bull"

*The terms "bull market" and "bear market" are derived from the way those animals attack a foe, because bears attack by swiping their paws downward and bulls toss their horns upward. Hence, a bull market is when stock prices are climbing strongly and a bear market is when they're languishing.*

After 4 months of working here at PJ, I've noticed the differences between city and "kampung" people. I've to admit that I'm from kampung and find it difficult to adapt to the city living lifestyle. Sometimes I wondered, are they really so rich and live such a luxurious life?

All these reminded me of what my Add. Maths teacher always said "同人不同命啊" (we are all same as a human being, but everyone has a different life). However, I'm not greedy eh, I want no branded LV, Gucci, Armani shit... What I want is just enough to spend, enough to eat... But I seems to have problem even with this simple little wish... Sigh... life... is just soooo sucksssssss~

City folks

* Got so many LV or not? Petaling Street 1 izzit? *

Kampung folks

* Red, White, Blue Nylon Bag *

See the difference? Hahahahahaha, I'm just giving an example, I doesn't mean all people from the city are so high class, and people from the kampung are so "pariah" la... LOL

However, the saddest thing I found out although I've already heard of it before is...

Adre Agassi and his wife Steffi Graf (Former world tennis no. 1 male & female player)

* No money, no honey. Even Mr & Mrs. Agassi understand this. *

Yes, no money, no honey! Sighhhh... Ok fine, so I guess I shall get used to it and live with the red white blue nylon bag right?


* Fashion show =.=" *

But... NO!!!!

Guess what I've found on the net!!!


* Now even Louis Vuitton also wanna rob us our precious design of red white blue bag T.T *

Haihhhh... To make things worst, my company add salt into my wound by abolishing the petrol reimbursement claim starting on December onwards.

AAAAaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhh... my RM75 is flying away!!!

Ishhhh.. economy crisis~ ZzzzzzzZZzzz

I'm poor... so sooooooooo poor...


* Spare some money pleaaaaaaaseeeee? *

How am I going to proceed to eliminate the things in my wish list la???!!!

* Everyone says buying your first apartment makes you feel like an adult. What no one mentions is that selling it turns you right back into a child. *

Lookout Point, Ampang

Last Tuesday, my colleagues and I went to Lookout Point at Ampang for sightseeing outing and some pornography photography session.. It was my first time there and I've to say I'm impressed with the scenery of the KL night view. It's at the hilltop and you're able to see the whole KL skyline. The environment there was also suitable for couples to hangout, but ... ... arggghhhh nevermind~!!!


* Mist at the hilltop restaurant. *


* Misty KL skyline. After rain effect. *


* Sunset at the hilltop. *


* Night view of the Kuala Lumpur skyline. *


* Breathtaking view! *


* After the KL Twin Tower lights up. *




* The "not so" impressive KL Tower was overshadowed by the brilliance of the Twin Tower. *


* The spotlights of the Twin Tower beaming through the cloudy dark sky. *


* People who went that day =) *

Hope you guys enjoy the photos. =)

* Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. *