Imperfections

Life - "In the end, is these small thing that you remember, the little imperfections... that make them perfect for you."

Priority / Priorities

We have a hell lot of priorities in life. Let it be in the comparison between relationship, friendship, work and even family. It's all depends on how each of us look at things. How we were taught since we were young. And also how our own personality, opinion and mindset. Humans differ from each and another. Don't we? We can hardly predict how a person think and control them. Please bare in mind that we ain't Dark Archon from StarCraft who can mind control any living being, although I wish I could.

I believed many of us who managed to lived up to this age understand this (=.=" like damn old like that). I mean, I'm pretty sure that we've experienced something that come to a point that we ourself have to choose and make some decisions. And that is when priority takes into consideration.

At work, in certain occasions and tasks that need us to be able to multitask. So that we, as employees of the company can be as productive as possible. But when there are two or more critical issues coming up, there is the time when we'll decide which to look into by its priority. Solve the highest priority first and solve the rest after it. In other words, those are the so called "low priority" issue.

The most common example is between relationship and friendship. Which mean between your girl friend / boy friend and your friends. Back during the schooling days, the only chance to hang out was during the weekends, Saturday in particular (thanks to co-curriculum). And I have even more choices to choose from.

TODO: play football?



Leo club?



meeting friends?



dating??? ... and the list goes on and on...


* Opsss!!! * (The highest priority!!!)

But sad to tell, I am only one, and I could only choose one from all these. Sigh... =( But well, about which is the priority, you know I know larrr... ;-)

Apart from that, all these kind of comparison are still okay to me, however, the worst combination should be between family - relationship, family - work (career).

Does anyone ask any of you about the "if your mother and your wife/girl friend fall into the sea, who will you save first?" question. This might seems an answer for it but I'm sure everyone have their own set of answers. So who is your priority?



However there are some rare cases. Like recently, I've been keep coming up with some strange questions for myself. Something like, the ex that you loved so much, and your new partner; Old vs New.. If they happens to date you out at the same time, who would you choose to give up? who would you choose to go out with? and who would you give the priority to?



There are also people who sacrificed their career for their family. Just like my dad. =)



Please don't get me wrong, he didn't resign his job because of us. Its just that he refused to be transferred to other branches elsewhere in Malaysia. For the sake of our education and the environment that we grew up. They (parents) think that it's not a good idea for kids like us to keep changing their living environment. Thus, family is HIS priority. =)

* Why say the sky is the limit, when there are footprints on the moon? *

Friendship Pt. 2

Sorry and thank you that you guys let me know that I'll be missed... akakakkakaka



Eh, when I went missing for some times, you all will MISS ME one wohhhh!!!

Wahhh, I'm so touched... T.T

Appreciate everyone of you a lotz!!!

* Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it. *

Friendship

I've always treasured my best friends. Those who grew up with me, by my side for the ups and downs. Shared the happiness and sadness together. We've been through a lot ever since we got to know each other for almost a decade ago, some for half a decade...

Most of us, we'll be 23 this year - two zero zero nine

I'm gonna show something kinda ancient...!!!


* I can't remember which and what event that we've attended around 5 to 6 years ago. *

We looks so young & naive... (I don't know why I like to use this word so much lately XD). There're 7 of us in the picture. Eventually, 3 of them was studying or working at overseas, 1 going to and 1 still uncertain. Sighhh, its breaking up now, to pursue our own dreams, career and future.

I always tell people that the happiest moment in my life should be back then during our secondary school time. While we're leo members / directors. But well, life moved on...


* Oh shit, damn funny to post this pic weii! XD *

I've another group of friends who loves to play football as I am. We used to be in the school team and although we did not manage to win anything, but well... I thought we're the best school team ever for all these years =p hehehehhee


* During inter-school competition at "STAR" school. *

Well, now I'm kinda like lack of exercise, it just gotten from bad to worst. During the university time, I still played some futsal. Although its was not as "hot" as before. But still I just like this ball game...


* I'm not in this pic, but they were my futsal kaki in MMU. *



3 of us, knew each other for around 10 years. And yet we're still very close now. Even though we don't get to meet up that often like we used to be, but we'll always remains as brothers.


Few years ago.................................................Recently

Have we changed? Yes, physically...LoL but mentally, we're always friends and always will!


* We used to do what the hamsters are doing... =) *



Sometimes, I think of stupid things like who'll notice my existence or who'll miss me when I'm not around. I should say I'm an attention seeker though LoL... That's why I want attention lahhh (*facebook*). But fortunately, I know I don't need anything happen to me to find out who were my true friends are. ;)

* In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on. *

Christmas, A Year Ago, Current - A Year Later.

Time flies, in a blink of an eye it's Christmas once again, and again, and again, and again ......

Was chatting with my one of my besties few days ago.

Talking about what we've achieved within this whole year...

Hmmm, let me recall my memory...

A year ago,

...............................................


* Mount Fuji *

I celebrated Christmas in Japan. I'm grateful that my dad brought us there for holiday.

Everything looks so fantastic...


* Wearing Yukata (Japanese pajamas) before??? after??? hot spring bathe. *

Have my first ever naked hot spring bathe together with some unknown "mah lat lou"...
(No naked photos, sorry... =p)


* At the hillside of Mount Fuji. *

See and touched the "real" snow for the first time in my life.

Went to Disney land (although I'm a bit too old for that) ...

Took my first bullet train ride (that cost a bomb @@) ...

Okay, enough of Japan...

Besides, in this year...

...............................................

I scored an A for my Final Year Project (a big achievement for me) ...

I got the highest GPA for my last trimester exam in these 4 years of studies...

I got myself a job even before my final exam ...

Failed to go for any graduation trip / holidays because all of us seems so eager to work right after we completed our Degree ...

Heart broken and ended my 5 years long relationship...


* Broken_heart_by_fabu (got it from google) *

Birthday was never a big hoodoo for me, I always complained about how I celebrated my "SPECIAL" 21st birthday... But this year, 2 of my besties, Andy and Wilson treated me a meal at Italianese. My very first time having a "luxurious" meal!!! =.="

Am suppose to be happy with it but found out that actually some shits happened on the day before??? after??? that.

Started to work in a company called The Media Shoppe at Kelana Jaya and staying at Bayu Puteri, Petaling Jaya.

First time clubbing in KL. YES! FIRST TIME!!!

Attended my convocation ceremony at Multimedia University, Cyberjaya.


* Dad, mom, Jason, grandma and me (and TanLeeWay at the back). *

My parents must be very happy, and I'm proud that I've made them proud. =)


* You see, he's so happy. =p *

Got to know some really nice friends ...


* Without you all, I don't think I can pull it through such a difficult period of my life. *

Also got to know someone really cool, sweet, and cute too... ;-)

To some of you that I might have left out, you have my sincere apology ... =)

Life... Full of ups and downs. I did grumbled a lot like most of the Chinese. That's what Raja Petra said... But the process of experiencing it and be able to pull through it made me stronger. "An intensive training for life" as I used to tell my buddies...

That's why we are like cockcroach!!! HIT ALSO CANNOT DIE WAN LAH!!!

Working life ain't easy. But I've learned a lot in these 6 months. Albeit there were some disappointments and frustrations that I wrote in the previous entry, will not give up finding the key to success.

Anyhow...

HoHoHo!!! I'll like to wish everyone a Happy Merry Christmas!


* Santa chicks are coming to townnnnnn. LOL (last year photo) *

* Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars.
You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. *

Alcoholic

Within these 4 days, I've been consuming quite a lot of alcohol for the past 3 nights...

Thus, I'm now "officially" having an ALCOHOL OVERDOSE!!!

By the way... First time tried Glenmorangie, and it tastes nice! =)

P/S: Longer entry will mostly be posted on weekdays. Thanks~

* Alcohol - the cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems. *

懂得放下, 和等自在!

I'm very grateful that I've a bunch of best friends that often forward me some inspirational and meaningful emails whenever I need them! Thanks guys!!! It gave me a really strong feelings after reading this article ...

By the way, ... "Sharing is Caring" right? =)

*****

記住 anger ( 發怒 ) 與 danger ( 危險) 只差一個字

別看少這一個字

它會影響我們這份職業、甚至人際關係

正所謂 「禍從口出...」

「 Speak when you're angry, and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret. 」

專家講:

「人，面對外人時，

總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，

但面對自己最親近的家人、爱人

卻往往一點小事就足以皺起眉頭，

甚至出言相傷。」

正如你永遠只對你最愛、最親的人生氣

你會對住你上司、老板、甚至你的朋友, 好朋友生氣或发脾气嗎 ?

如果形容人類是一種

「出門高E.Q ，回家低E.Q 」 的動物，

我想一點兒也不誇張，

多拿出一點耐心與包容給家人吧！

否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？

曾在報上看過

英文中的 stressed （壓力），與 desserts （甜點）兩字，

有很微妙的相關。是什麼相關呢？

仔細一瞧，好像沒什麼關係嘛！

可是，再看一下，咦，

stressed 這個字從後面倒過來拼寫，不就是 desserts 嗎？

所以，「stressed is just desserts if you can reverse. 」

（壓力就是甜點，只要你能逆向觀看。）

哈，這真是有趣的妙論呀！

人生之中，有許多 「壓力、挫折」，

但只要轉個念、換個角度看，

它也就是我們生命中的 「甜點」 呀！

此外，也有人說：

「人生就像一碗飯，一半是甜的，一半是苦的，

你不知道會先吃到哪一邊，但終究必須把飯吃完。」

是呀，生命有甜、有苦、有酸、也有辣；

但都必須去經歷它、走過它呀！

有一個小學老師在偏遠的鄉里教書，

這天，他來到自己班上的教室，

問班上的小朋友： 「你們大家有沒有討厭的人啊」

小朋友們想了想，有的未作聲，有的則猛力地點點頭。

老師接著便發給每人一個袋子，說：

「我們來玩一個遊戲。現在大家想想看，過去這一 週，

曾有那些人得罪過你他到底做了怎麼樣可惡的事想到後，

就利用放學時間到河邊去找一塊石頭，

把他的名字給用小紙條貼在石頭上如果他實在很過份，

你就找一塊大一點的石頭，如果他的錯是小錯，

你就找一塊小一點的石頭。

每天把戰利品用袋子裝到學校來給老師看哦！」

學生們感到非常有趣且新鮮，

放學後，每個人都搶著到河邊去找石頭。

第二天一早，

大家都把裝著從河邊撿來的鵝卵石的袋子帶到學校來，

興高采烈地討論著。

一天過去了，兩天過去了，三天過去了... ... ，

有的人的袋子越裝越大，幾乎成了負擔。

終於，

有人提出了抗議 「老師，好累喔」 老師笑了笑沒說話，

立刻又有人接著喊：

「對啊每天背著這些石頭來上課， 好累喔 」

這時，老師終於開口了，

她笑著說： 「那就放下這些代表著別人過犯的石頭吧」

孩子們有些訝異，

老師又接著講：

「學習寬恕別人的過犯 ，

不要把它當寶一樣的記在心上，扛在肩上，

時間久了，任誰也受不了…」

這個星期，這班的同學上到了人生中極寶貴的一課。

袋裡裝入越多、越大的 「石頭」，

心中存留越多、越深的仇恨，

所造成的負擔就越重。

假如你有寫上我名字的石頭

你應當知道該怎樣做了吧！

我很喜歡一句名諺：

「寬恕人的過失，便是自己的榮耀。」

懂得 「放下」，何等自在。

相愛容易相處難，婚姻與戀愛最大的不同，

就是 「戀愛看的是對方的優點」，

而 「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。

*****

然而，我深信的...

是不论恋爱或是婚姻都要互相包容对方的优点和缺点...

这样才能维持长久... 緣份是找到包容你的人, 不是吗?

* If its so hard for you appreciate others, don't blame it when people forgets you one day. *

Life Sucks For The Poor With A Wish List =.=

I've a wish list. And I wanna share with all of you... (So that you can buy me a present during Xmas or my Birthday HEhehhehehehehe)



My WishList
1. Notebook External Hardisk
2. New Shoes
3. New Wallet
4. New Watch
5. 1 Shorts
6. Crocs
7. Digital Camera
8. Samsung Omnia
9. Sunglasses
10. Laptop

With the recent global economy crisis caused by the "almighty" US, the life for fresh graduates like us seems to become tougher and tougher. It's even worst to have a wish list at a time like this zzzZzzzz...


* When the red bear hits the stock market. *

Explanation of "red bear" and "green bull"

*The terms "bull market" and "bear market" are derived from the way those animals attack a foe, because bears attack by swiping their paws downward and bulls toss their horns upward. Hence, a bull market is when stock prices are climbing strongly and a bear market is when they're languishing.*

After 4 months of working here at PJ, I've noticed the differences between city and "kampung" people. I've to admit that I'm from kampung and find it difficult to adapt to the city living lifestyle. Sometimes I wondered, are they really so rich and live such a luxurious life?

All these reminded me of what my Add. Maths teacher always said "同人不同命啊" (we are all same as a human being, but everyone has a different life). However, I'm not greedy eh, I want no branded LV, Gucci, Armani shit... What I want is just enough to spend, enough to eat... But I seems to have problem even with this simple little wish... Sigh... life... is just soooo sucksssssss~

City folks

* Got so many LV or not? Petaling Street 1 izzit? *

Kampung folks

* Red, White, Blue Nylon Bag *

See the difference? Hahahahahaha, I'm just giving an example, I doesn't mean all people from the city are so high class, and people from the kampung are so "pariah" la... LOL

However, the saddest thing I found out although I've already heard of it before is...

Adre Agassi and his wife Steffi Graf (Former world tennis no. 1 male & female player)

* No money, no honey. Even Mr & Mrs. Agassi understand this. *

Yes, no money, no honey! Sighhhh... Ok fine, so I guess I shall get used to it and live with the red white blue nylon bag right?


* Fashion show =.=" *

But... NO!!!!

Guess what I've found on the net!!!


* Now even Louis Vuitton also wanna rob us our precious design of red white blue bag T.T *

Haihhhh... To make things worst, my company add salt into my wound by abolishing the petrol reimbursement claim starting on December onwards.

AAAAaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhh... my RM75 is flying away!!!

Ishhhh.. economy crisis~ ZzzzzzzZZzzz

I'm poor... so sooooooooo poor...


* Spare some money pleaaaaaaaseeeee? *

How am I going to proceed to eliminate the things in my wish list la???!!!

* Everyone says buying your first apartment makes you feel like an adult. What no one mentions is that selling it turns you right back into a child. *

一生中最重要的人

跟你们分享一个很有意思的故事... =)

事情发生在美国的一所大学。
在快下课时教授对同学们说 ...
我和大家做个游戏，谁愿意配合我一下？
一个女生走上台来。
教授说，“请在黑板上写下你难以割捨的二十个人的名字。”
女生照做了。有她的邻居、朋友以、亲人等等。
教授说，“ 请你刮掉一个这里面你认为最不重要的人。”
女生刮掉了一个她邻居的名字。
教授又说，“请你再刮掉一个。”
女生又刮掉了一个她的同事。
教授再说，“请你再刮掉一个你一生中最重要的人。”
女生又刮掉了一个。 ....
最后，黑板上只剩下了三个人，她的父母、丈夫和孩子。
教室非常安静，同学们静静的看著教授，感觉这似乎已不再是一个游戏了。
教授平静的说，“请再刮掉一个。”
女生迟疑著，艰难的做著选择 .....
她举起粉笔，刮掉了父母的名字。
“请再刮掉一个。”
身边又传來了教授的声音。
她竟呆了，淀顫巍巍地举起粉笔缓慢而坚決的又刮掉了儿子的名字。
紧接著，她哇的一声哭了，样子非常痛苦。
教授等她平静了一下，问道：“和你最亲的人因该是你的父母和你的孩子，因为父母是养育的人，孩子是你亲生的，而丈夫是可以重新再寻找的，为什么丈夫反倒是你最难割捨的人呢？”
同学们静静地看著她，等待著她的回答。

女生平静而又缓慢地说道：“隨著時间的推移，父母会先我而去，孩子大成人后肯定也会离我而去，真正陪伴我度过一生的只有... ... ...

“我的丈夫”

P/s: Sorry for the late Saturday entry... Stay tuned ;)

* Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have. *

Friends Meet Up @ Barbeza

Around 1 week plus ago, it was Deepavali on Monday, I took the opportunity of the long weekend and drove my little Fatvy back to Ipoh to fix his master window controller and sent him for a routine service.

Most of the Perak'ian who are working and studying at outstation went back for a short holiday. Many of my friends went back too.

We arranged a meet up at "Bar"beza (A Bar), so that we can have a little bit of "drinks" and chill out session together. It was like another ER but I gotta say I like the style there. You order what you want to drink, let it be a bottle, or a bucket... And then you just pay for it! Besides, people dress up nicely to go there.. =) That's the reason why guys like us can wash our eyes every once a while whenever a pretty chick walks in.. HEHE...

To me, Barbeza consider as a budget place compare to clubs like Sincero, TimeZone2 or whatsoever...

Surprise that Pat was able to show up that night though. Never really have the chance to club with her before. So let's just forget about go "yamseng" with her la~ Haihzzz..

But HEY! I doesn't mean she's not a drinker ok? ;) Hehehe...

Here are some pics for that night... Well, well... After so many years...


* Me, Pat and My Darling - Ken *


* Pat, Me and CC *


* Pat, you are so gorgeousssssssS! ;-) I have to say I loveeee this pic a lot!!! *

After so many years... after so many many years...

Seems like we have all grown up...

* Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending *

Spending Spree Weekend

Sorry folks, I was a little bit busy during the weekend because I was staying at my BBF place at USJ 2. I do have internet access but without my own PC, I don't feel comfortable to write a blog entry. Never mind, because I might post 2 entries per day since I've missed out 1~ =D Hehe

My housemate / buddy went back to Ipoh to collect his new glasses during the weekend and I was dumped in my tiny little apartment alone. Glad that my BBF and friend offer me to stay over there so that I have someone to accompany me. If I'm going to stay alone for the entire weekend, I'm sure my mouth going to smell like shit due to lack of verbal interaction with another human life form XD... LOL
*Don't laugh!! It's true, if you shut your mouth for the whole day, I'm sure it gonna stink when you open it... HAHA*

Anyhow, nothing special for the weekend eventhough it was haloween though... Went to a cafe in TTDI plaza and have some beer while watching the lame ass Man Utd won with a "slight" 4-3 margin. That place sells cheap beer!!! I'm sure that was not my last time visitting there =) Besides, We also went to pyramid today and I bought myself a Polo Short Sleeves. It cost RM57 after 70% discount. So I guessed it's a good buy laaa =)


* My Blue White Polo Short Sleeves *

Spent a lot during the weekend, beer, bought a shirt, shop for daily items and went for steamboat at Puchong.
*My wallet: "Ouchhhhhhhhhh!!!" *

It's 2.45am now, gotta go to bed soon... Till then, see ya~

*Speak when you're angry, and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret.*