给我单身的朋友们...
To My Friends Who Are ... ... SINGLE
爱就像一只蝴蝶。越要追它，却越要逃避。
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
但...
But,
如果就隨它自由的飞，他会在你最不注意时飞向你；
If you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it；
爱使人快乐，却常伤害人，
Love can make you happy but often it hurts,
但只有在你把爱给了一个真正值得付出的人时，才是最珍贵的...
But love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it..
所以，花点时间去选择最好的 他/她 吧！
So take your time and choose the best！
给我那不是单身的朋友们...
To My Friends Who Are ... ... NOT SINGLE
爱不能使 他/她 成为一個 “完美的人” ，
Love isn't about becoming someone else's "perfect person",
它却可以使你找到一个帮你成长的 他/她 。
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
给我玩世不恭的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... PLAYBOY or PLAYGIRL
如果你不在乎，不要说 “我爱你” ；
Never say "I love you" if you do not care；
如果没有感觉，就不要讨论自已的感受...
Never talk about feelings if they ain't there...
* Don't think he'll be able to play with colors now... at least for the time being. *
不要涉足会使他人心碎的生活。
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
说谎时，不要看著眼睛。
Never look into the eyes while lying.
最残忍的事莫过于男人让女人爱他，却是逢场作戏。反之亦然 ...
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl or a girl can do to a guy is to let her/him fall in love when he/she doesn't intend to catch her/his fall... It have to work both ways...
给我已婚的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... MARRIED
不要老是说 “这是你的错” ，何不说说 “对不起” ，
Love is not about saying "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry" ;
不要老是问 “你去哪裡了” ，何不说说 “我就在这儿等着你” 。
Not "where are you", but "I'm right here waiting for you";
不要老是问 “你怎么会这么做？” ，何不说说 “我了解你” 。
Not "how could you", but "I understand."
不要老是说 “我希望你这么做” ，何不说说 “我感谢你的一切” 。
Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
给我心碎的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... HEARTBROKEN
心碎的时间和伤害的深度，完全取決于你自已。
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
难的是，如何从中学习，而不是从伤痛中爬起。
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
给我所有天真的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... NAIVE
要如何恋爱？... 就爱吧！不要欲烟言又止；要互相协调，不要太固执；
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent,
要分享，且千万不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
受伤后不要再记恨。
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
给我积极的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... POSSESSIVE
看到你所爱的 他/她 和其他人很快乐使你心碎
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
但知道你所爱的 他/她 是和你在一起不快乐，令人更加的伤心。
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
给我不敢表白的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... AFRAID TO CONFESS
当你和 他/她 分手时，爱受到伤害
Love hurts when you break up with someone.
当 他/她 和你分手时，更是伤痛
It hurts even more when breaks up with you.
但伤害最深的是你所爱的 他/她 完全无法了解你的感受
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
给我那还在坚持着的朋友们
To My Friends Who Are ... ... STILL HOLDING ON
人生最伤心的事，是你和 他/她 爱情長跑了多年，最后的结局却不如所望。
find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.
如果 他/她 现在让你觉得不值得付出，那麽一年，甚至十年后，都不会值得付出的。
If he/she isn't worth it now he's/she's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now.
就让 他/她 走吧
Just let them go.....
* The sweet talk part is easy tarp, but not for girls who knows how to differentiate sweet talk and sincere talk. Unfortunately, most of the sincere talk doesn't taste sweet to them. *From lowyat.net cupid corner.
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